Tuesday, December 17, 2013

BE a LIGHT to OTHERS and LEAN on your STRENGTH



 "think about your role models, those who inspire you to be your better self and make those people your closets advocates."

First think about what you want to be, what you want to become, what you love in others, what you want to love better in yourself, how you want to make a difference, and how you would want to be remembered.


It can be the 5 most successful, inspiring, motivational friends or whatever you want to become or be like.

Then find the time to put these people in your life and make a cautious effort to be the person you want to become. There is that famous quote, you are who you hang out with and it's so true. WHO I AM is who I attract.

The same goes from changing who we are from the inside out and this is one way to become who you want to be.

I use these people for strength, for hope, for help, for love, for guidance, to find clarity, to find balance, to lean on when I am down, and for drive. These people bring that light, energy, and hope into my live.




To be honest to label them down to 5 people is hard for me and I am lucky to say I do have more then 5 people who make me the best version of myself. It started with maybe one person and have built into a whole network of people who I need in my life for every aspect. They give me a 1000 different perspectives. Each person has something to bring the table. I feel the bigger your circle the more light enters in.


I CHOOSE TO SURROUND MYSELF WITH PEOPLE WHO WANT TO CHANGE 
PEOPLE WHO ARE REAL
PEOPLE WHO ARE IMPERFECT BUT STRIVING FOR GREATNESS
PEOPLE WHO FOUGHT BATTLES AND WON 
PEOPLE WITH BEAUTIFUL SCARS BUT HEALED WOUNDS
PEOPLE WHO HAVE NOTHING TO HIDE
PEOPLE WHO ARE OPEN WITH WHO THEY ARE
PEOPLE WHO LOVE THEMSELVES AND WANT TO CHANGE
PEOPLE WHO ARE HUMBLE
PEOPLE WHO WANT TO LAUGH
PEOPLE WHO BRING LIGHT!

I don't want to offend anyone who teaches this principle and says now close that circle.

There are times in my life when I only could lean on these people and had to cut out all the negative people to rejuvenate and bring myself back... but when you are ready and have found your foundation again, I SAY OPEN THAT CIRCLE AGAIN and be that LIGHT others need only you to be. Let others lean on you for strength. We are all here together to make the best out of this life. We have good days and bad days and we need each other. NO ONE DESERVES TO BE ALONE. If you tell yourself this...change your words.

NO ONE DESERVES TO BE ALONE, WE ARE ALL WORTHY OF LOVE



Look around you and find those people you want to be like, who make you a better person, who will help you reach your potential/ your goals and stick with them. Let them help you and when your ready PAY IT FORWARD. 




BE that person to someone else. WE ALL HAVE THE ABILITY TO REACH PEOPLE OTHERS MAY NOT BE ABLE TO REACH!  I cannot reach everyone and so it's up to you to reach the people I cannot. We need to make this world a better place in a world that seems so dark at times. LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL and there are enough ASS WHOLES in the world. Fight against the jerks and be the light others need.

We all know the people who laugh at us because they are afraid to be themselves...don't get offended it only hurts you. Choose to love when people laugh at you, choose to pray for those who hurt you, focus your energy on the positive rather then the negative, find the light even in the darkest times in your life, associate with those who bring you up and not down. We all have people we cannot get away from, trust me I have those and some are family, but make your boundaries and keep fighting for them to come around. Be the good person when others can't be. 





CHOOSE TO TRUST
CHOOSE TO SPEAK
CHOOSE TO LOVE
CHOOSE TO UPLIFT
CHOOSE TO EXPRESS
CHOOSE TO LEARN
CHOOSE TO LISTEN
CHOOSE TO FORGIVE
CHOOSE TO NOT TAKE OFFENSE
CHOOSE TO BE HUMAN
CHOOSE TO PAY IT FORWARD







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